Monday, August 18, 2008

70 Years ...

Happy Birthday, Grandma!
It seems like only yesterday that I was eating fresh peas out of your garden and twirling my baton on your front porch. I have such fond memories of our times together as a child. Singing songs from old movies while driving in your VW, eating toast with jam, watering the hydrangea bushes, reading Dr. Seuss, going to fabric stores and enjoying the outdoors. My favorite moments with you are those when we did nothing but laugh. You always heard me and gave me encouragement to be myself. You’ll never know how precious those moments were for me. I carry them with me and think of them often.

How happy we are to be back in the Northwest. Not only have we left the mosquitoes behind in Minnesota, but we rejoice to have you so nearby. I hope that we do not take this closeness for granted and let too much time pass by before we see you again. Maybe my children will come to know what it is I adore about you. I hope so. We love you. We miss you. Happy Birthday.

Today you are You,
that is truer than true.
There is no one alive
who is Youer than you.
~Dr. Seuss

We attended a family reunion in Oregon in honor of my Grandmother who turns 70 in a few weeks. It was wonderful! I reconnected with relatives I haven't seen in at least 10 years - since my wedding. My grandmother was surrounded by crowds of children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and more relatives and friends. It was a beautiful sight. She looked around at all those people who had come together to celebrate her life and said ... "I started this." As, indeed, she did.

I am the oldest grandchild and I was fortunate to be able to spend a lot of one-on-one time with my grandmother as a child. She was my "happy place". When times were difficult growing up, she was my safe harbour. When I was with her, I didn't have to worry about grown-up worries. I was able to be silly and relaxed and she made me feel remarkably clever and brilliant. She taught me many things. Too many to share. But I am thankful to have a place I can still go to in my heart and remember.

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